"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the low down....




we're friends, pretty good friends :)
she's cute, nice, and pretty much everything a guy would look for in a girl...
i like her. a lot.

problem is, i dunno if she does.

i don't know, it's just to the point where you want to give up on liking someone.

it's depressing sorta?

i mean finding a cute girl in Mars, PA (yes, mars) is extremely extremely hard to do.

i dunno, i just feel like quitting you know?

how do i let it go?

if i don't contact her much, will she start to like me? (i've seen this before...)

thanks...
jordan
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kiss her! This is the fastest way to find out for guys who don't know how to recognize IOI's.

Anyways you say you live in PA, near Chadds Ford?

Good luck sr20det400!
 
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how the hell do i do that ?!?! haha

i've never kissed anyone, and neither has she?!

i don't wanna get beat down/denied....
i just don't know when to do it, you know?

lol
 
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Ram your lips against hers in a smooth fashion and pull away shortly after. You will know whether you likes you for sure after that.
 
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Bvbidd said:
Ram your lips against hers in a smooth fashion and pull away shortly after. You will know whether you likes you for sure after that.
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Ohh., how simple, blunt and effective that is!:rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bvbidd

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Ohh., how simple, blunt and effective that is!:rolleyes:
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Let's just see if he takes the bait. :whistle:

Sure there is a 90% chance she'll never want to be near you again and feel disgusted and violated. But there would be no second guessing after that.
 
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Flirt with her, work some kino in, show her some things she's never done, get her heart going. If she starts to flirt back and work some kino on you, then you know what to do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just do a simple test that David D emphasises, when flirting with her, teasing her and busting her balls, play with the tips of her hair, if she moves her head away in a fashion so your not touching her hair, then she does'nt want to kiss, if she likes it, go just move in for the kiss, only 90% of the way though, she has to do the last 10%, that way u'll be kissing her, and u'll know if she likes u.
 
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sr20det400 said:
thanks for the positive reinforcement. haha
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I don't mean to be a tosser mate. It's just I've had so much exp of getting infatuated with a girl, who only wants to be friends.

"spin some plates" as it were. Have other girls in back up.
 
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So go fvck 'em.

It's not church.
 
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