"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the low down....




we're friends, pretty good friends :)
she's cute, nice, and pretty much everything a guy would look for in a girl...
i like her. a lot.

problem is, i dunno if she does.

i don't know, it's just to the point where you want to give up on liking someone.

it's depressing sorta?

i mean finding a cute girl in Mars, PA (yes, mars) is extremely extremely hard to do.

i dunno, i just feel like quitting you know?

how do i let it go?

if i don't contact her much, will she start to like me? (i've seen this before...)

thanks...
jordan
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kiss her! This is the fastest way to find out for guys who don't know how to recognize IOI's.

Anyways you say you live in PA, near Chadds Ford?

Good luck sr20det400!
 
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how the hell do i do that ?!?! haha

i've never kissed anyone, and neither has she?!

i don't wanna get beat down/denied....
i just don't know when to do it, you know?

lol
 
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Ram your lips against hers in a smooth fashion and pull away shortly after. You will know whether you likes you for sure after that.
 
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Bvbidd said:
Ram your lips against hers in a smooth fashion and pull away shortly after. You will know whether you likes you for sure after that.
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Ohh., how simple, blunt and effective that is!:rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bvbidd

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Docs said:
Ohh., how simple, blunt and effective that is!:rolleyes:
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Let's just see if he takes the bait. :whistle:

Sure there is a 90% chance she'll never want to be near you again and feel disgusted and violated. But there would be no second guessing after that.
 
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Flirt with her, work some kino in, show her some things she's never done, get her heart going. If she starts to flirt back and work some kino on you, then you know what to do.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just do a simple test that David D emphasises, when flirting with her, teasing her and busting her balls, play with the tips of her hair, if she moves her head away in a fashion so your not touching her hair, then she does'nt want to kiss, if she likes it, go just move in for the kiss, only 90% of the way though, she has to do the last 10%, that way u'll be kissing her, and u'll know if she likes u.
 
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sr20det400 said:
thanks for the positive reinforcement. haha
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I don't mean to be a tosser mate. It's just I've had so much exp of getting infatuated with a girl, who only wants to be friends.

"spin some plates" as it were. Have other girls in back up.
 
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So go fvck 'em.

It's not church.
 
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