"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the low down....




we're friends, pretty good friends :)
she's cute, nice, and pretty much everything a guy would look for in a girl...
i like her. a lot.

problem is, i dunno if she does.

i don't know, it's just to the point where you want to give up on liking someone.

it's depressing sorta?

i mean finding a cute girl in Mars, PA (yes, mars) is extremely extremely hard to do.

i dunno, i just feel like quitting you know?

how do i let it go?

if i don't contact her much, will she start to like me? (i've seen this before...)

thanks...
jordan
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kiss her! This is the fastest way to find out for guys who don't know how to recognize IOI's.

Anyways you say you live in PA, near Chadds Ford?

Good luck sr20det400!
 
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how the hell do i do that ?!?! haha

i've never kissed anyone, and neither has she?!

i don't wanna get beat down/denied....
i just don't know when to do it, you know?

lol
 
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Ram your lips against hers in a smooth fashion and pull away shortly after. You will know whether you likes you for sure after that.
 
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Bvbidd said:
Ram your lips against hers in a smooth fashion and pull away shortly after. You will know whether you likes you for sure after that.
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Ohh., how simple, blunt and effective that is!:rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Docs said:
Ohh., how simple, blunt and effective that is!:rolleyes:
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Let's just see if he takes the bait. :whistle:

Sure there is a 90% chance she'll never want to be near you again and feel disgusted and violated. But there would be no second guessing after that.
 
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Flirt with her, work some kino in, show her some things she's never done, get her heart going. If she starts to flirt back and work some kino on you, then you know what to do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just do a simple test that David D emphasises, when flirting with her, teasing her and busting her balls, play with the tips of her hair, if she moves her head away in a fashion so your not touching her hair, then she does'nt want to kiss, if she likes it, go just move in for the kiss, only 90% of the way though, she has to do the last 10%, that way u'll be kissing her, and u'll know if she likes u.
 
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sr20det400 said:
thanks for the positive reinforcement. haha
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I don't mean to be a tosser mate. It's just I've had so much exp of getting infatuated with a girl, who only wants to be friends.

"spin some plates" as it were. Have other girls in back up.
 
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So go fvck 'em.

It's not church.
 
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