"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the low down....




we're friends, pretty good friends :)
she's cute, nice, and pretty much everything a guy would look for in a girl...
i like her. a lot.

problem is, i dunno if she does.

i don't know, it's just to the point where you want to give up on liking someone.

it's depressing sorta?

i mean finding a cute girl in Mars, PA (yes, mars) is extremely extremely hard to do.

i dunno, i just feel like quitting you know?

how do i let it go?

if i don't contact her much, will she start to like me? (i've seen this before...)

thanks...
jordan
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kiss her! This is the fastest way to find out for guys who don't know how to recognize IOI's.

Anyways you say you live in PA, near Chadds Ford?

Good luck sr20det400!
 
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how the hell do i do that ?!?! haha

i've never kissed anyone, and neither has she?!

i don't wanna get beat down/denied....
i just don't know when to do it, you know?

lol
 
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Ram your lips against hers in a smooth fashion and pull away shortly after. You will know whether you likes you for sure after that.
 
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Bvbidd said:
Ram your lips against hers in a smooth fashion and pull away shortly after. You will know whether you likes you for sure after that.
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Ohh., how simple, blunt and effective that is!:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Docs said:
Ohh., how simple, blunt and effective that is!:rolleyes:
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Let's just see if he takes the bait. :whistle:

Sure there is a 90% chance she'll never want to be near you again and feel disgusted and violated. But there would be no second guessing after that.
 
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Flirt with her, work some kino in, show her some things she's never done, get her heart going. If she starts to flirt back and work some kino on you, then you know what to do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just do a simple test that David D emphasises, when flirting with her, teasing her and busting her balls, play with the tips of her hair, if she moves her head away in a fashion so your not touching her hair, then she does'nt want to kiss, if she likes it, go just move in for the kiss, only 90% of the way though, she has to do the last 10%, that way u'll be kissing her, and u'll know if she likes u.
 
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sr20det400 said:
thanks for the positive reinforcement. haha
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I don't mean to be a tosser mate. It's just I've had so much exp of getting infatuated with a girl, who only wants to be friends.

"spin some plates" as it were. Have other girls in back up.
 
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So go fvck 'em.

It's not church.
 
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