"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Two dates over the weekend - time to go cold?

DonJuanabe

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One Saturday, one Sunday. Not interested in either girl and in each date I found my thoughts drifting to oneitis. Very frustrating. Normally the prescription to get over oneitis is to date other women but I'm wondering if going on dates is actually preventing me from getting over it (or maybe the girls just weren't high enough on the scale -- one was 5 the other 6, my oneitis was a solid 7.5 with an 8 body). Anyone have thoughts on whether to keep dating or just give up dating entirely for a few months -- the focus would be self-improvement but the only improvement I could make would be to buy a house instead of renting and that is a serious deal.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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youngmack

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Me too bruh, saturday i went on a date to the movies with a 7 with a 9.5 body, but my mind still found someway to drift to my oneitis throughout the date....nothing i do helps me get over her.I've even been fvckin a couple of girls and it dosent work and its literally been over a year.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Yes its DEF because you went out with the Sherminator and Lord Pukeness.

Don't waste your time on girls who do absolutely nothing for you physically; your better off going to bars with your buddies, at least you know you will have fun.

My prescription to get rid of one-itis is the following:

1) spend time thinking about what went wrong, what i can do better and let the emotions out (mad, angry, sad; whatever) for a few days.

2) spend extra time on my other passions (reading, working out, catching up with old friends, upgrading my wardrobe! LOL)

3) going out and meeting new people (including guys) with no agenda except to have a good phuckin' time


And guess what happens every time? New girls come along and you look back and go "WTF why was I tripping on such a lame @ss girl."







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