"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Two dates over the weekend - time to go cold?

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DonJuanabe

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One Saturday, one Sunday. Not interested in either girl and in each date I found my thoughts drifting to oneitis. Very frustrating. Normally the prescription to get over oneitis is to date other women but I'm wondering if going on dates is actually preventing me from getting over it (or maybe the girls just weren't high enough on the scale -- one was 5 the other 6, my oneitis was a solid 7.5 with an 8 body). Anyone have thoughts on whether to keep dating or just give up dating entirely for a few months -- the focus would be self-improvement but the only improvement I could make would be to buy a house instead of renting and that is a serious deal.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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youngmack

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Me too bruh, saturday i went on a date to the movies with a 7 with a 9.5 body, but my mind still found someway to drift to my oneitis throughout the date....nothing i do helps me get over her.I've even been fvckin a couple of girls and it dosent work and its literally been over a year.
 
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Yes its DEF because you went out with the Sherminator and Lord Pukeness.

Don't waste your time on girls who do absolutely nothing for you physically; your better off going to bars with your buddies, at least you know you will have fun.

My prescription to get rid of one-itis is the following:

1) spend time thinking about what went wrong, what i can do better and let the emotions out (mad, angry, sad; whatever) for a few days.

2) spend extra time on my other passions (reading, working out, catching up with old friends, upgrading my wardrobe! LOL)

3) going out and meeting new people (including guys) with no agenda except to have a good phuckin' time


And guess what happens every time? New girls come along and you look back and go "WTF why was I tripping on such a lame @ss girl."







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