"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Two dates over the weekend - time to go cold?

DonJuanabe

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One Saturday, one Sunday. Not interested in either girl and in each date I found my thoughts drifting to oneitis. Very frustrating. Normally the prescription to get over oneitis is to date other women but I'm wondering if going on dates is actually preventing me from getting over it (or maybe the girls just weren't high enough on the scale -- one was 5 the other 6, my oneitis was a solid 7.5 with an 8 body). Anyone have thoughts on whether to keep dating or just give up dating entirely for a few months -- the focus would be self-improvement but the only improvement I could make would be to buy a house instead of renting and that is a serious deal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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youngmack

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Me too bruh, saturday i went on a date to the movies with a 7 with a 9.5 body, but my mind still found someway to drift to my oneitis throughout the date....nothing i do helps me get over her.I've even been fvckin a couple of girls and it dosent work and its literally been over a year.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Yes its DEF because you went out with the Sherminator and Lord Pukeness.

Don't waste your time on girls who do absolutely nothing for you physically; your better off going to bars with your buddies, at least you know you will have fun.

My prescription to get rid of one-itis is the following:

1) spend time thinking about what went wrong, what i can do better and let the emotions out (mad, angry, sad; whatever) for a few days.

2) spend extra time on my other passions (reading, working out, catching up with old friends, upgrading my wardrobe! LOL)

3) going out and meeting new people (including guys) with no agenda except to have a good phuckin' time


And guess what happens every time? New girls come along and you look back and go "WTF why was I tripping on such a lame @ss girl."







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