"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Two dates over the weekend - time to go cold?

DonJuanabe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 20, 2012
Messages
588
Reaction score
22
One Saturday, one Sunday. Not interested in either girl and in each date I found my thoughts drifting to oneitis. Very frustrating. Normally the prescription to get over oneitis is to date other women but I'm wondering if going on dates is actually preventing me from getting over it (or maybe the girls just weren't high enough on the scale -- one was 5 the other 6, my oneitis was a solid 7.5 with an 8 body). Anyone have thoughts on whether to keep dating or just give up dating entirely for a few months -- the focus would be self-improvement but the only improvement I could make would be to buy a house instead of renting and that is a serious deal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

youngmack

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2012
Messages
617
Reaction score
11
Location
New York City
Me too bruh, saturday i went on a date to the movies with a 7 with a 9.5 body, but my mind still found someway to drift to my oneitis throughout the date....nothing i do helps me get over her.I've even been fvckin a couple of girls and it dosent work and its literally been over a year.
 

Pimp-sicle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2003
Messages
2,457
Reaction score
101
Location
Pimpsylvania
Yes its DEF because you went out with the Sherminator and Lord Pukeness.

Don't waste your time on girls who do absolutely nothing for you physically; your better off going to bars with your buddies, at least you know you will have fun.

My prescription to get rid of one-itis is the following:

1) spend time thinking about what went wrong, what i can do better and let the emotions out (mad, angry, sad; whatever) for a few days.

2) spend extra time on my other passions (reading, working out, catching up with old friends, upgrading my wardrobe! LOL)

3) going out and meeting new people (including guys) with no agenda except to have a good phuckin' time


And guess what happens every time? New girls come along and you look back and go "WTF why was I tripping on such a lame @ss girl."







PIMP
 
Top