Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No **** it's possible, the reason people don't do it is because it's ****en stupid...Is there any advice about wearing two colognes at the same time? Since we have two wrist, it seems possible
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Haha.. I'll give you another fvcked up question then.. is there any odorless aftershave, so it doesn't clash with the cologne?Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
BigWillyStyle, answering all of lifes fvcked up questions...
No **** it's possible, the reason people don't do it is because it's ****en stupid...
When your going out with some hoe they like to guess what sorta cologne you're wearing. If you got 2 different types on you you'll smell like a fool. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool, and **** her in the ass, while you're on the stool.
I agree. The only two times people ever smell your colonge is if you've sprayed too much wanting people to notice you or if you do it the right way and just spray a bit on, so ladies that get close enough will crave your smell and want to stay close. 2centsOriginally posted by rgeere
As long as you don't smell like someone with body odor that has been digging through a dumpster who cares.
I think people put far to much emphasis on this sort of crap to begin with.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Werd.I think people put far to much emphasis on this sort of crap to begin with.
Ok guys I'll tell you what! I'll stimulate and arouse women through their extra-sensitive sense of smell, while you lot smell like tramps.Originally posted by rgeere
I think people put far to much emphasis on this sort of crap to begin with.