"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
two colognes same time?
- Thread starter Lancer
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
*edit to answer my own question:
It might make a nice opinion opener:
Hi, I was wondering, I am trying to find a new cologne and I'm trying to decide between these two.. which one do you like?
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Senior Don Juan
Also, how to stop the conflict for aftershave smell and cologne smell?
BigWillyStyle
Banned
No **** it's possible, the reason people don't do it is because it's ****en stupid...
When your going out with some hoe they like to guess what sorta cologne you're wearing. If you got 2 different types on you you'll smell like a fool. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool, and **** her in the ass, while you're on the stool.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
I think people put far to much emphasis on this sort of crap to begin with.
I agree. The only two times people ever smell your colonge is if you've sprayed too much wanting people to notice you or if you do it the right way and just spray a bit on, so ladies that get close enough will crave your smell and want to stay close. 2cents
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
