"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Twinges of Shame
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
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But it is a noble thing to take the red pill and un-learn what our feminized society shoved down our throats through shaming and coming out as a man on the other side.
VladPatton
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Purefilth
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FVVVVVVVVCKING D!CKHEAAAAAD.
^^thats how i normally think of myself when I have these memories
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Fly By Night
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You know what's annoying though? When you try to tell them the real truth about dating women and what REALLY works and they agree half-assedly, but still cling on to their afc tendencies and DO THE SAME SH!T. Many afcs try to get women, but the real problem is that they never learn from it or they never try to alter their game. They just go like "Oh, she just wasn't the girl of my dreams then. I'll just do the same exact thing with this new girl, maybe she will be different!" *with Disney hopeful eyes*Meast1525 said:
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that's because it's not just a matter of 'telling' someone and them seeing the light.Fly By Night said:
it's a matter of actually changing your perception. the way you see things. taking dj's advice here to go NC has really changed my perception. and it has given me a lot of self-confidence.
NC and 'nexting' rules.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Its always better to just not even try. I go into it if people ask me about it but no longer do I volunteer. Too much effort for ingratitude and narrow mindedness.
Like looking at a girl's ass in her own house after I hadn't seen her for about 8 years. She's the first girl that ever kissed me on the cheek, back when I was in primary school. After all that time I meet her again and immediately make the impression I'm a pervert. I'm pretty ashamed of that.
Also I got some HUGE IOI's from some HB8's, possibly HB9 to some, and I didn't act on them. I feel like the hugest dweeb ever when I think about those girls. I still have their numbers but it's almost been a year ago that I did those fvckups. I wonder if I should just give me a: "who are you?" text, and see where it goes. Need to find some more plates TBH.