You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You know what's annoying though? When you try to tell them the real truth about dating women and what REALLY works and they agree half-assedly, but still cling on to their afc tendencies and DO THE SAME SH!T. Many afcs try to get women, but the real problem is that they never learn from it or they never try to alter their game. They just go like "Oh, she just wasn't the girl of my dreams then. I'll just do the same exact thing with this new girl, maybe she will be different!" *with Disney hopeful eyes*Meast1525 said:Ya I tend to cringe too, but honestly it hurts worse to see people you are close to go through be AFC sh1t and then realizing there is nothing you can do to help them. It's a life process everyone has to go through. I am able to see sh1t coming from a mile away, but they just don't listen.
that's because it's not just a matter of 'telling' someone and them seeing the light.Fly By Night said:You know what's annoying though? When you try to tell them the real truth about dating women and what REALLY works and they agree half-assedly, but still cling on to their afc tendencies and DO THE SAME SH!T. Many afcs try to get women, but the real problem is that they never learn from it or they never try to alter their game. They just go like "Oh, she just wasn't the girl of my dreams then. I'll just do the same exact thing with this new girl, maybe she will be different!" *with Disney hopeful eyes*
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.