"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Turning down..uh...works?

XSilverStarboyX

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Its wierd, I was in a long distance relationship with my friend. We talked on the phone a lot and I was going to have her come see me and spend a week with me. Shes was pretty cute to. About a 7.5, and she broke up with me to get back with her old boyfriend. I was an absolute wreck, and went back to being an afc.
Lets journey to the start of this school year. I decided no girls until I got my original self confidence back. Lots of girls started asking me out and I turned each one of them by saying, "Im afraid I might hurt you. Please dont hate me for it." Now I have about 6 Bachelorettes on my hands. So I guess maybe turning down works? Wierd. Share stories that are similar or disscuss my story
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Soupar

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its just playing hard to get
 

snobby

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Not all women do, but some women are turned on when guys are hard to get and reject them. LOL.
 

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I guess Im just running into the ones who like it
 
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