"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Turning down..uh...works?

XSilverStarboyX

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Its wierd, I was in a long distance relationship with my friend. We talked on the phone a lot and I was going to have her come see me and spend a week with me. Shes was pretty cute to. About a 7.5, and she broke up with me to get back with her old boyfriend. I was an absolute wreck, and went back to being an afc.
Lets journey to the start of this school year. I decided no girls until I got my original self confidence back. Lots of girls started asking me out and I turned each one of them by saying, "Im afraid I might hurt you. Please dont hate me for it." Now I have about 6 Bachelorettes on my hands. So I guess maybe turning down works? Wierd. Share stories that are similar or disscuss my story
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Soupar

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its just playing hard to get
 

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Not all women do, but some women are turned on when guys are hard to get and reject them. LOL.
 

XSilverStarboyX

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I guess Im just running into the ones who like it
 
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