"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Turning down..uh...works?

XSilverStarboyX

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Its wierd, I was in a long distance relationship with my friend. We talked on the phone a lot and I was going to have her come see me and spend a week with me. Shes was pretty cute to. About a 7.5, and she broke up with me to get back with her old boyfriend. I was an absolute wreck, and went back to being an afc.
Lets journey to the start of this school year. I decided no girls until I got my original self confidence back. Lots of girls started asking me out and I turned each one of them by saying, "Im afraid I might hurt you. Please dont hate me for it." Now I have about 6 Bachelorettes on my hands. So I guess maybe turning down works? Wierd. Share stories that are similar or disscuss my story
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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its just playing hard to get
 

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Not all women do, but some women are turned on when guys are hard to get and reject them. LOL.
 

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I guess Im just running into the ones who like it
 
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