"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Turning down..uh...works?

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Its wierd, I was in a long distance relationship with my friend. We talked on the phone a lot and I was going to have her come see me and spend a week with me. Shes was pretty cute to. About a 7.5, and she broke up with me to get back with her old boyfriend. I was an absolute wreck, and went back to being an afc.
Lets journey to the start of this school year. I decided no girls until I got my original self confidence back. Lots of girls started asking me out and I turned each one of them by saying, "Im afraid I might hurt you. Please dont hate me for it." Now I have about 6 Bachelorettes on my hands. So I guess maybe turning down works? Wierd. Share stories that are similar or disscuss my story
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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its just playing hard to get
 

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Not all women do, but some women are turned on when guys are hard to get and reject them. LOL.
 

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I guess Im just running into the ones who like it
 
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