"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Turn offs

GaryNas

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I was just wondering what's the one thing that turns you off more than anything else with a woman?

For me, it's bad teeth. I can't stand seeing a pretty girl smile only to see an absolute crooked mess . :/
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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italostud

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Valley girl types. You know "like, that's so totally awesome *giggle*"

Can't stand that shyt.
 

Fatality

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Everything mentioned in this thread plus a negative attitude toward everything and ugly feet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jakeyboy

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everything mentioned so far and bad breath and body odour. my girl's gotta smell great.
 

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Several things...

1. women who go to bars/clubs and think virtually every guy there is a chump who is not good enough for her.... as if she's automatically above the guys there
2. it's been covered many times before here, I know, but... women who ask for drinks... just don't do it! Any woman who asks you to buy her a drink is more interested in the drink than she is in you!
3. too many piercings or tattoos... maybe this is an age/generational thing(?)
 

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-Feminists
-Women who depend solely on the outside beauty, you know, the type who never says a word and just smiles and thinks she's better than you.
-Stupidity (Jessica Simpson)
-Eyes focus on the ground and doesn't make eye-contact with anyone.
-Bad breath
-Neglected feet
 

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Smoking, Bad teeth,bad feet,ignorance/stupidity,arrogance,ugly tattoos,low self-esteem
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MrCode

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A bad attitude and not maintaining herself (which runs the gamut from bad teeth to smelliness to nasty feet and bad fingernails.) Stupidity is also annoying.
 

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Originally posted by il_duce
Cankles
What's that? I'm not familiar.

Is it new-age slang?


Turn offs to me:

1) Women who aren't my race (I'm not racist that's just how I am).

2) Women who get sloppy drunk very often (drinking is OK, just don't get sloppy drunk).

3) Extremely prude/ goody-two-shoes women (generally, those who think drinking, partying, sex before marriage, other drugs, or even tobacco or staying up late are bad and evil things).

4) Women who cuss every other word, or so it seems (everyone cusses, but it's very possible to cuss too much)

5) Extremely religious and devout women.

6) Women who aren't at least an "8" in looks (I know looks aren't everything but I have to be physically attracted to her).

7) "Goth," (what does "goth" mean anyway??) or "alternative"-type women.

8) Women who tell people things like "Eww...you smoke," or "you drink so therefore you're evil." I realize that I just repeated myself (see #3) but I felt like saying it again in a different way.

9) Women who don't have at least one car/motorcycle/some type of motorized transport.

10) Women who want a sugar daddy (I'm not exactly one now, but it might happen later).

11) Women who don't use make-up, do their nails, or even do their hair. There's not much excuse to not try to look your best, I don't think.

Ben
 

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Physical: Well anything that ISN'T good looking!

Personality: Attention-seeking, manipulative, moody, that "dead" look, belching, smoking, and the ones who try to kill you
 

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Feminists and closed body language (arms crossed, etc)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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