"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Turn of events in a short period(had sex)

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alright I posted yesterday about my stress and aniexty issues that lead to jealousy and anger.

this is true..ive done some research and set up a program for it. and am going to do thing such as workout again to help balance my life.

anyways as for as the gf is concerned......I just told her ive been extremely stressed and not myself..so she went out and got me 3 big ballons...

1 had a smiley
the other 2 were red and white for the Stl louis Cardinals colors.

and she got me a couple cute little gifts to make me smile since I told her I was stressed.

obviously she loves me......

next she had sex with me for the first time last night...2 times.

so i took her virginity so to speak.....

the first time was ok..the 2nd time as prolly the most intense ive ever had.she is like a freak waterfall...good and bad.

regardless I have a wonderful women who is in love with me...and I have a few personal issue to work out.

anyway thanks for yesterday suggestions and im very happy IM HAVING SEX AGAIN..THANK THE GOOD LORD! TALK ABOUT STRESS RELIEF!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shes a virgin who on the second time gave you the most intense sexual expirance of your life.

Either you have had a very dull sex life or your gf wasnt a virgin.

As for the ballons im not even going to touch that one.
 

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1. its not that she was the best in bed.....

its the emotional aspect of it....wether u want to believe that or not....having sex with somone you love does change things.


hey she is a nerd...so i understand why she does those things.
 

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Ah well you will always rember your first defloration how she lays there like a starfish and how she gets blood all over your freshly cleaned expensive sheets..... it truly is a beutifull thing :rolleyes:.
 

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lol....lucky i got the blood out of the way last week....she bleed all over my fingers...that was a first for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Italiano, your on a board with a lot of people looking to lay women. If you dont wan't the odd detail then jump on the Saddle Club board. You asked for it, anyway.

@Friv - nice work. Definetly is that much better when theres something else there.
 

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lol..come on NINJA!

u know ur boys talk about that ****...us men are sexual creatures to the fullest :)
 

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lol i see much blood when i cut people in half with my Ninja sword but i am never comfortable seeing blood from a womans pus*y
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
lol....lucky i got the blood out of the way last week....she bleed all over my fingers...that was a first for me.
delightful :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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