"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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frivolousz21

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alright I posted yesterday about my stress and aniexty issues that lead to jealousy and anger.

this is true..ive done some research and set up a program for it. and am going to do thing such as workout again to help balance my life.

anyways as for as the gf is concerned......I just told her ive been extremely stressed and not myself..so she went out and got me 3 big ballons...

1 had a smiley
the other 2 were red and white for the Stl louis Cardinals colors.

and she got me a couple cute little gifts to make me smile since I told her I was stressed.

obviously she loves me......

next she had sex with me for the first time last night...2 times.

so i took her virginity so to speak.....

the first time was ok..the 2nd time as prolly the most intense ive ever had.she is like a freak waterfall...good and bad.

regardless I have a wonderful women who is in love with me...and I have a few personal issue to work out.

anyway thanks for yesterday suggestions and im very happy IM HAVING SEX AGAIN..THANK THE GOOD LORD! TALK ABOUT STRESS RELIEF!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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shes a virgin who on the second time gave you the most intense sexual expirance of your life.

Either you have had a very dull sex life or your gf wasnt a virgin.

As for the ballons im not even going to touch that one.
 

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1. its not that she was the best in bed.....

its the emotional aspect of it....wether u want to believe that or not....having sex with somone you love does change things.


hey she is a nerd...so i understand why she does those things.
 

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Ah well you will always rember your first defloration how she lays there like a starfish and how she gets blood all over your freshly cleaned expensive sheets..... it truly is a beutifull thing :rolleyes:.
 

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lol....lucky i got the blood out of the way last week....she bleed all over my fingers...that was a first for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Italiano, your on a board with a lot of people looking to lay women. If you dont wan't the odd detail then jump on the Saddle Club board. You asked for it, anyway.

@Friv - nice work. Definetly is that much better when theres something else there.
 

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lol..come on NINJA!

u know ur boys talk about that ****...us men are sexual creatures to the fullest :)
 

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lol i see much blood when i cut people in half with my Ninja sword but i am never comfortable seeing blood from a womans pus*y
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
lol....lucky i got the blood out of the way last week....she bleed all over my fingers...that was a first for me.
delightful :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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