"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Turn of events in a short period(had sex)

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alright I posted yesterday about my stress and aniexty issues that lead to jealousy and anger.

this is true..ive done some research and set up a program for it. and am going to do thing such as workout again to help balance my life.

anyways as for as the gf is concerned......I just told her ive been extremely stressed and not myself..so she went out and got me 3 big ballons...

1 had a smiley
the other 2 were red and white for the Stl louis Cardinals colors.

and she got me a couple cute little gifts to make me smile since I told her I was stressed.

obviously she loves me......

next she had sex with me for the first time last night...2 times.

so i took her virginity so to speak.....

the first time was ok..the 2nd time as prolly the most intense ive ever had.she is like a freak waterfall...good and bad.

regardless I have a wonderful women who is in love with me...and I have a few personal issue to work out.

anyway thanks for yesterday suggestions and im very happy IM HAVING SEX AGAIN..THANK THE GOOD LORD! TALK ABOUT STRESS RELIEF!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shes a virgin who on the second time gave you the most intense sexual expirance of your life.

Either you have had a very dull sex life or your gf wasnt a virgin.

As for the ballons im not even going to touch that one.
 
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1. its not that she was the best in bed.....

its the emotional aspect of it....wether u want to believe that or not....having sex with somone you love does change things.


hey she is a nerd...so i understand why she does those things.
 
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Ah well you will always rember your first defloration how she lays there like a starfish and how she gets blood all over your freshly cleaned expensive sheets..... it truly is a beutifull thing :rolleyes:.
 
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lol....lucky i got the blood out of the way last week....she bleed all over my fingers...that was a first for me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Italiano, your on a board with a lot of people looking to lay women. If you dont wan't the odd detail then jump on the Saddle Club board. You asked for it, anyway.

@Friv - nice work. Definetly is that much better when theres something else there.
 
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lol..come on NINJA!

u know ur boys talk about that ****...us men are sexual creatures to the fullest :)
 
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lol i see much blood when i cut people in half with my Ninja sword but i am never comfortable seeing blood from a womans pus*y
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
lol....lucky i got the blood out of the way last week....she bleed all over my fingers...that was a first for me.
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delightful :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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