"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Turn of events in a short period(had sex)

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
alright I posted yesterday about my stress and aniexty issues that lead to jealousy and anger.

this is true..ive done some research and set up a program for it. and am going to do thing such as workout again to help balance my life.

anyways as for as the gf is concerned......I just told her ive been extremely stressed and not myself..so she went out and got me 3 big ballons...

1 had a smiley
the other 2 were red and white for the Stl louis Cardinals colors.

and she got me a couple cute little gifts to make me smile since I told her I was stressed.

obviously she loves me......

next she had sex with me for the first time last night...2 times.

so i took her virginity so to speak.....

the first time was ok..the 2nd time as prolly the most intense ive ever had.she is like a freak waterfall...good and bad.

regardless I have a wonderful women who is in love with me...and I have a few personal issue to work out.

anyway thanks for yesterday suggestions and im very happy IM HAVING SEX AGAIN..THANK THE GOOD LORD! TALK ABOUT STRESS RELIEF!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Black_Italian

Banned
Joined
May 9, 2004
Messages
1,032
Reaction score
0
Age
40
shes a virgin who on the second time gave you the most intense sexual expirance of your life.

Either you have had a very dull sex life or your gf wasnt a virgin.

As for the ballons im not even going to touch that one.
 

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
1. its not that she was the best in bed.....

its the emotional aspect of it....wether u want to believe that or not....having sex with somone you love does change things.


hey she is a nerd...so i understand why she does those things.
 

Black_Italian

Banned
Joined
May 9, 2004
Messages
1,032
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Ah well you will always rember your first defloration how she lays there like a starfish and how she gets blood all over your freshly cleaned expensive sheets..... it truly is a beutifull thing :rolleyes:.
 

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
lol....lucky i got the blood out of the way last week....she bleed all over my fingers...that was a first for me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

TheRelic

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 28, 2004
Messages
580
Reaction score
0
Italiano, your on a board with a lot of people looking to lay women. If you dont wan't the odd detail then jump on the Saddle Club board. You asked for it, anyway.

@Friv - nice work. Definetly is that much better when theres something else there.
 

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
lol..come on NINJA!

u know ur boys talk about that ****...us men are sexual creatures to the fullest :)
 

Black_Italian

Banned
Joined
May 9, 2004
Messages
1,032
Reaction score
0
Age
40
lol i see much blood when i cut people in half with my Ninja sword but i am never comfortable seeing blood from a womans pus*y
 

G-Man UK

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2005
Messages
110
Reaction score
0
Location
UK
Originally posted by frivolousz21
lol....lucky i got the blood out of the way last week....she bleed all over my fingers...that was a first for me.
delightful :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Top