"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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evan12

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I personally think that Red Pill as a metaphor is supposed to represent reality as it really is, just like it was in The Matrix. As such, I would not take such a rigid alpha/beta approach to labeling everybody, because reality isn't quite that black and white.
Who own the reality ? Redpill, Blackpull or even Bluepills? everyone think the others are delusional and they are the one seeing things the right way
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who own the reality ? Redpill, Blackpull or even Bluepills? everyone think the others are delusional and they are the one seeing things the right way
That's just the nature of reality, it's somewhat subjective to your own interpretation. I don't think the Red Pillers have a monopoly on reality, they have their own delusions like anyone else.
 
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