"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TurboTax Commercial

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Anyone see this TurboTax commercial? It reminds me of this forum whenever I see it.

A guy tries to pick up a girl by impressing her with the app he came up with, and his name is even Chad lol. He kind of comes off as a loser PUA type, but he does do a few things that are spot on. First off, he is completely unfazed by her rejection. Secondly, as soon as the first girl decides to talk on her phone, he is out of there to talk to someone else (not letting his value drop by standing off by himself). Finally, he immediately moves on to the next girl to try his luck with her.

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Typical anti straight white male propaganda.

1. white guy is short

2. white woman is disinterested

3. approaching women (chad) is demonized

4. white woman is "smart" (with glasses)

5. the CPA is a black woman, therefore smarter than the "smart" white woman

6. the white woman would rather take boring tax stuff with the black female friend than with a white male

7. white man is disloyal and immoral and clueless

Also notice at 9 sec and 21 sec, an old, balding, fat arab/mexican guy with the super hot model redhead gal, promoting mixed race couples.
 
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Typical anti straight white male propaganda.

1. white guy is short

2. white woman is disinterested

3. approaching women (chad) is demonized

4. white woman is "smart" (with glasses)

5. the CPA is a black woman, therefore smarter than the "smart" white woman

6. the white woman would rather take boring tax stuff with the black female friend than with a white male

7. white man is disloyal and immoral and clueless

Also notice at 9 sec and 21 sec, an old, balding, fat arab/mexican guy with the super hot model redhead gal, promoting mixed race couples.
That’s actually kind of an interesting breakdown
 

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Typical anti straight white male propaganda.

1. white guy is short

2. white woman is disinterested

3. approaching women (chad) is demonized

4. white woman is "smart" (with glasses)

5. the CPA is a black woman, therefore smarter than the "smart" white woman

6. the white woman would rather take boring tax stuff with the black female friend than with a white male

7. white man is disloyal and immoral and clueless

Also notice at 9 sec and 21 sec, an old, balding, fat arab/mexican guy with the super hot model redhead gal, promoting mixed race couples.
Interesting
 

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That is a good assessment longtail.
His approach was, um, a bit immature or nutty. Might work with a different gal though.
But I like his attitude.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone see this TurboTax commercial? It reminds me of this forum whenever I see it.

A guy tries to pick up a girl by impressing her with the app he came up with, and his name is even Chad lol. He kind of comes off as a loser PUA type, but he does do a few things that are spot on. First off, he is completely unfazed by her rejection. Secondly, as soon as the first girl decides to talk on her phone, he is out of there to talk to someone else (not letting his value drop by standing off by himself). Finally, he immediately moves on to the next girl to try his luck with her.

It could be the director was exposed to some PUA materials, in general most American and Canadian commercials are somehow degrading men and elevating women to be most smarter/ moral / etc .

he is not CHAD by incels definition not even a Chad light. He is normy who women are not intersted in and only go with him when they are old and looking for provider. So I think they brought a guy that they know he will get rejected by this women , they didnt bring a Chad look
 

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It could be the director was exposed to some PUA materials, in general most American and Canadian commercials are somehow degrading men and elevating women to be most smarter/ moral / etc .

he is not CHAD by incels definition not even a Chad light. He is normy who women are not intersted in and only go with him when they are old and looking for provider. So I think they brought a guy that they know he will get rejected by this women , they didnt bring a Chad look
Agreed.

1. Has has a poor hairline for a young guy.

2. He’s short.

3. The leather jacket is NOT working for him fashion-wise.

4. She only turns her head; her torso doesn’t turn much. She refuses (consciously or unconsciously) to orient her body towards him.
 
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Anyone see this TurboTax commercial? It reminds me of this forum whenever I see it.

A guy tries to pick up a girl by impressing her with the app he came up with, and his name is even Chad lol. He kind of comes off as a loser PUA type, but he does do a few things that are spot on. First off, he is completely unfazed by her rejection. Secondly, as soon as the first girl decides to talk on her phone, he is out of there to talk to someone else (not letting his value drop by standing off by himself). Finally, he immediately moves on to the next girl to try his luck with her.

And the second girl is named “Stacey.” You can’t make this up lol.
 

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PUA things he does:

1. Speaks like a memorized routine.

2. Attempts to speak loud with a dominant tonality, despite not having a deep voice.

3. Puts his left arm on the table to spread out and be territorial.

4. While he intially tips his head to the side (weird), he refuses to “lean in” towards her (correct).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good observations, @longtail and @Mike32ct. Better analyses than mine, fer sure. :)

I agree whoever directed this had some PUA community exposure (Chad and Stacey lol). I'll add the dude has on a leather jacket. Or it could be that this stuff has become so mainstream this is how all guys are seen now.
 

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Good observations, @longtail and @Mike32ct. Better analyses than mine, fer sure. :)

I agree whoever directed this had some PUA community exposure (Chad and Stacey lol). I'll add the dude has on a leather jacket. Or it could be that this stuff has become so mainstream this is how all guys are seen now.
Yea he doesn’t wear the leather jacket. It’s wearing him. I think the commercial used him because they’re saying when men talk like this that’s how they come off and in turn look.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think the commercial used him because they’re saying when men talk like this that’s how they come off and in turn look.
I definitely agree they're making fun of him, he's clearly just a wanna be. He's not a Chad in the traditional sense, the names are just a side joke.

It's another case of presenting males as stupid and inferior to females. We might add that he has a stupid idea for an app, while the girl has actual income (because she's using the tax service).

By the way (and I'm sure this wasn't intentional), the "meow" bit reminded me of an old PUA guru called Me-How, who used a very feminine, gay friend type of approach to pickup. Remember when PUAs all had stupid code names?
 

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Him: Call me
Her: I won't, thanks though
Him: Awesome, talk then...

LMAO!

That dude (short, whatever) has the winning attitude, some people instead just find excuses for their failures; looks, ethnicity etc.
 
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Typical anti straight white male propaganda.

1. white guy is short

2. white woman is disinterested

3. approaching women (chad) is demonized

4. white woman is "smart" (with glasses)

5. the CPA is a black woman, therefore smarter than the "smart" white woman

6. the white woman would rather take boring tax stuff with the black female friend than with a white male

7. white man is disloyal and immoral and clueless

Also notice at 9 sec and 21 sec, an old, balding, fat arab/mexican guy with the super hot model redhead gal, promoting mixed race couples.
I'm waiting for the incoming shaming for stating the obvious. Tired of this stupid, virtue signaling, anti-western, anti-white bias that is so pervasive in western society. There must be a lot of self hating soy boys out there who secretly wish for their extermination.
 

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Cringetastic:rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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