"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tuna
- Thread starter speakeasy
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bible_Belt
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Warboss Alex
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unless you're eating a dozen cans a day I doubt you'll have any trouble.
remember to stay well hydrated. you COULD take NAC if you're really worried but I sincerely doubt that at a couple of cans a day, it's at all necessary.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm going to check into this further because I haven't had an adverse side effects yet but I want to know what could happen.
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in theory: high blood pressure, blood in the urine, liver trouble..blinkwatt said:
in practice unless you're taking in a dozen cans a day: not a lot. except you'll stink like fish.
Hmm. You got me thinking.Warboss Alex said:
My blood pressure is in the normal range. My urine is affected by tuna,I don't bleed,but the urine smells like straight tuna. I have no liver problems to date.
I hate tuna breath after I kill can,that's the negative that I've seen from eating a bunch of Solid White Albacore Tuna.
Thanks for the input.
That counter is worthless bull****. Did you read the source and who put that up there? It's a lobbying organization for the protection of sea turtles and marine life who'd like to curtail fishing operations.
That is propagandistic trash.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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About tuna, just stick to 1 to 2 cans per day at most and you don't have cause for concern. Especially if you're relatively active, because your body flushes toxins from the body faster if you are.
Those numbers are meant for the average, sedentary american who doesn't know what a gym is, or what running shoes are.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bible_Belt
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However, there is criticism that those limits and guidelines are too strict:
http://www.villagevoice.com/people/0603,hunter,71775,24.html