You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
in theory: high blood pressure, blood in the urine, liver trouble..blinkwatt said:According to the calculator on gotmercury.org I'm on average intaking 400% of of what I should be.
I'm going to check into this further because I haven't had an adverse side effects yet but I want to know what could happen.
Hmm. You got me thinking.Warboss Alex said:in theory: high blood pressure, blood in the urine, liver trouble..
in practice unless you're taking in a dozen cans a day: not a lot. except you'll stink like fish.
Hey, I noticed the same thing when I took a piss this morning. I thought to myself, "Do I smell tuna? Nah...couldn't be" and thought I was just imagining things.blinkwatt said:but the urine smells like straight tuna.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I didn't catch that! But even still, does that mean that the info is necessarily wrong? I'm sure they have an agenda, but that doens't mean the numbers are wrong per se.Suicide said:Oh please...
That counter is worthless bull****. Did you read the source and who put that up there? It's a lobbying organization for the protection of sea turtles and marine life who'd like to curtail fishing operations.
That is propagandistic trash.
Maybe not, but I'd be extremely suspicious since it's telling most people here that they're giving themselves de facto mercury poisoning with a few cans of tuna each week.speakeasy said:I didn't catch that! But even still, does that mean that the info is necessarily wrong? I'm sure they have an agenda, but that doens't mean the numbers are wrong per se.
LOL, actually, I HAVE found tuna does make your spunk smell more fishy, and the chick reports it tastes more fishy as well..Poor girlyQuiksilver said:Haha blink, your urine smells like tuna? Does that mean your spunk smells like fish as well? I'd hate to be your girlfriend!
About tuna, just stick to 1 to 2 cans per day at most and you don't have cause for concern. Especially if you're relatively active, because your body flushes toxins from the body faster if you are.
Those numbers are meant for the average, sedentary american who doesn't know what a gym is, or what running shoes are.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.