Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
in theory: high blood pressure, blood in the urine, liver trouble..blinkwatt said:According to the calculator on gotmercury.org I'm on average intaking 400% of of what I should be.
I'm going to check into this further because I haven't had an adverse side effects yet but I want to know what could happen.
Hmm. You got me thinking.Warboss Alex said:in theory: high blood pressure, blood in the urine, liver trouble..
in practice unless you're taking in a dozen cans a day: not a lot. except you'll stink like fish.
Hey, I noticed the same thing when I took a piss this morning. I thought to myself, "Do I smell tuna? Nah...couldn't be" and thought I was just imagining things.blinkwatt said:but the urine smells like straight tuna.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I didn't catch that! But even still, does that mean that the info is necessarily wrong? I'm sure they have an agenda, but that doens't mean the numbers are wrong per se.Suicide said:Oh please...
That counter is worthless bull****. Did you read the source and who put that up there? It's a lobbying organization for the protection of sea turtles and marine life who'd like to curtail fishing operations.
That is propagandistic trash.
Maybe not, but I'd be extremely suspicious since it's telling most people here that they're giving themselves de facto mercury poisoning with a few cans of tuna each week.speakeasy said:I didn't catch that! But even still, does that mean that the info is necessarily wrong? I'm sure they have an agenda, but that doens't mean the numbers are wrong per se.
LOL, actually, I HAVE found tuna does make your spunk smell more fishy, and the chick reports it tastes more fishy as well..Poor girlyQuiksilver said:Haha blink, your urine smells like tuna? Does that mean your spunk smells like fish as well? I'd hate to be your girlfriend!
About tuna, just stick to 1 to 2 cans per day at most and you don't have cause for concern. Especially if you're relatively active, because your body flushes toxins from the body faster if you are.
Those numbers are meant for the average, sedentary american who doesn't know what a gym is, or what running shoes are.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.