"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
tuna & milk
- Thread starter Jay-X
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
stevey_2000
Senior Don Juan
Ste.
Smooth Player 056
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**** man....how many grams are in your can of tuna? mine only have 23
~smooth
guitaronfire411
Senior Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
No, it's not bullshiat you dumbass. There were people out there that said FORD cars are better than Japanese when people say FORDS are rolling death traps, it's people like you that spread disinformation when the truth is right there on paper from scientific and photographic evidence.
From your post I think you're suffering from the beginning effects of mercury poisoning, which is the dulling of your brain cells. You're also from the UK, land of the diseased cattle which also probably is rotting away your brain. Don't knock USA, cause USA owns you, and is the motherland of SoSuave.
1 Can of Tuna is the maximum safety limit you want to get.
no need to play smart4ss over the internet, man, so chill out
for the guy who said that his cans of tuna have around 23 g of tuna: man, you probably didn't read accurately, since the really small cans contain 53 g when the oil is drained out... with the oil in, they are around 104 g, if i don't mistake myself... 23 g of tuna wouldn't even fill a sandwich
anyway, i usually eat cheap 160g cans
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
isnt that the answer to the question:
What supplements you take?
" Oh ya well i take a good helping of meat, packing on the beans, i wash it all down with gallons milk, then i make sure not to miss a dose of fish, Then I take some eggs for the weight.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Word of advice: buy tuna in water, not oil. Water is going to be healthier for you, especially considering the amounts of tuna people getting getting or staying in shape are going to eat. In the future, stay away from tuna in oil unless there is absolutely no alternative.
guitaronfire411
Senior Don Juan
Hahaha. Where do all of these smartasses come from?
I take protein on the side. The tuna/salmon is just a bonus. I also am known to eat food on a regular basis.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
stevey_2000
Senior Don Juan
yep, you really need to chill out more my son!!, go on a holiday to calm your nerves!!
Ste.
what the fcuk is your problem kid... go eat a xanax and chill out. And for only eating 1 can of tuna a week for safty limits thats some bull**** unless your pregnant. Show me some research that the maximum safety limit on tuna is 1 can.