“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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trying too hard?

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Is it true when you constantly go searching for "love" or for "someone" it never comes to you? i feel like the more i try the less results im getting...

I have a HB8 who i really like and she likes me, we've never met but we text alot but i am always initiating contact with her.....we talk about how much we like each other and sextext alot but when ever i arrange to meet up i dont know if shes just shy or nervous but she never gets back to me?
i dont know what to do? im always initiating contact every 2 days and if i dont contact her i wont hear from her in ages....

What should i do?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Stop contacting her she is wasting your time. Just using you for the attention you give her. If and when she contacts you, politely tell her if she doesnt want to meet you in person, then no more texting.
 
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ink_wizard said:
Is it true when you constantly go searching for "love" or for "someone" it never comes to you? i feel like the more i try the less results im getting...

I have a HB8 who i really like and she likes me, we've never met but we text alot but i am always initiating contact with her.....we talk about how much we like each other and sextext alot but when ever i arrange to meet up i dont know if shes just shy or nervous but she never gets back to me?
i dont know what to do? im always initiating contact every 2 days and if i dont contact her i wont hear from her in ages....

What should i do?
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Seriously? When are you guys going to learn?

is she genuinely interested? or just using me for ego boost?
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How can a person be genuinely interested if you've never met?

Excuse my bluntness, but I'm losing my patience for these types of situations
 
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This has got to be a joke?!
You're asking for advice on a forum about a girl you've never met?!
Has it actually come to this?!
Man the f*ck up, go meet some girls in real life and stop wasting your time with Internet girls.
Unbelievable
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This has got to be a joke?!
You're asking for advice on a forum about a girl you've never met?!
Has it actually come to this?!
Man the f*ck up, go meet some girls in real life and stop wasting your time with Internet girls.
Unbelievable
 
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cola said:
Stop contacting her she is wasting your time. Just using you for the attention you give her. If and when she contacts you, politely tell her if she doesnt want to meet you in person, then no more texting.
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I agree completely.

I've been in this situation many times before. Turns out they were just using me for attention whenever their husbands, boyfriends or some other guy wasn't showing them enough. I had a lot of phone/text sex and they'd promise we'd get together and fvck, but there was always some last minute excuse and they'd flake out.
 
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but i really do want to date this chick/sleep with her but im unsure on how to escalate this further....considering im always the 1 that has to text first and initiate meeting to which we havent done yet...

i dont want to lose her but i do feel like its an attention thing with her...
 
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ink_wizard said:
but i really do want to date this chick/sleep with her but im unsure on how to escalate this further....considering im always the 1 that has to text first and initiate meeting to which we havent done yet...

i dont want to lose her but i do feel like its an attention thing with her...
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Lose her? You never had her.
 
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My thoughts exactly.

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as a friend/texting buddy, at best.
Has she shown (not said) otherwise??
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I'm beginning to wonder which one of you really desires the attention

She likes sexting you (as do a lot of females once you get them there) because it excites her and she gets off to that. or worse, it makes her so h0rny that she hits up her FWB. You are warming her up for someone else bro. do you want that??

Remember, she has to invest in you - using her time and/or effort and/or money - for her to be worthy of your time.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ink_wizard said:
I have a HB8 who i really like and she likes me, we've never met ...i wont hear from her in ages....What should i do?
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AFC of the month!
 
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When you try too hard you think too much.

Even if you're trying to be that attractive male
It must look as if you're not trying, it must look 100% natural, even the slightest bit of thought or awkwardness or non-sincererness and you've lost it, you need to seem completely natural, even if you're thinking like a machine. It must look 100% natural.
 
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