Trying to get my life back on track....

[Aesthetix29]

Right I'll be honest .... I'm probably at my worst right now...

- just been made redundant after 14 years (they've stopped trading and haven't gone insolvent, so no redundancy pay yet)
-no plates lined up (been dropped off a few ex's and to be fair im rock bottom, and don't trust them)
- no money
-depressed
-lost a lot a weight (that's bad because I was a lean gym goer)
-just turned 31
-and a ton of other things


Good steps in taking to change my life....

-stopped smoking bud ( as I feel I'm more bubbly and funny without it - I think it makes me boring and suppresses my personality.
-started my own business ... Although things are very slow I am making progress, and I've just had my website built and made my first sale (which felt amazing)
- looking for ways to interact with more women (not just yet but soon, as I'm broke and can't afford to do anything atm) CATCH 22.
-getting tanned
-nice classy clothes once business picks up (again finances)

Thought I'd just share my current situation, and this is the worst I've felt in a long time. Anyone else going though something similar? Any advice would be apprechiated :-/

 

[dustmuffin]

Right I'll be honest .... I'm probably at my worst right now...

- just been made redundant after 14 years (they've stopped trading and haven't gone insolvent, so no redundancy pay yet)
-no plates lined up (been dropped off a few ex's and to be fair im rock bottom, and don't trust them)
- no money
-depressed
-lost a lot a weight (that's bad because I was a lean gym goer)
-just turned 31
-and a ton of other things


Good steps in taking to change my life....

-stopped smoking bud ( as I feel I'm more bubbly and funny without it - I think it makes me boring and suppresses my personality.
-started my own business ... Although things are very slow I am making progress, and I've just had my website built and made my first sale (which felt amazing)
- looking for ways to interact with more women (not just yet but soon, as I'm broke and can't afford to do anything atm) CATCH 22.
-getting tanned
-nice classy clothes once business picks up (again finances)

Thought I'd just share my current situation, and this is the worst I've felt in a long time. Anyone else going though something similar? Any advice would be apprechiated :-/

Hell yes...lost job of 22 years due to management shake up. My brother died. Unemployed for two years. Divorced after 22 year marriage. Dumped after year Ltr.

I am a mess. Working on my mental state with counciling and meds. I am trying to get fit. I am better but still a mess. I start couciling monday and i am certain that will be the key.

As far as women and money go you dont have to be wealthy to get laid. I spent 3 bucks on a first date and got laid. I can usually keep my confidence and game gowing for the length of a date. What im working on is 24/7. I can lose it and have a manic episode that is horrible. I have issues but others have it worse. The key is to reconize your short commings and take action to change. That is what i am doing. I hope in 6 months i will be a new man.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Hell yes...lost job of 22 years due to management shake up. My brother died. Unemployed for two years. Divorced after 22 year marriage. Dumped after year Ltr.

I am a mess. Working on my mental state with counciling and meds. I am trying to get fit. I am better but still a mess. I start couciling monday and i am certain that will be the key.

As far as women and money go you dont have to be wealthy to get laid. I spent 3 bucks on a first date and got laid. I can usually keep my confidence and game gowing for the length of a date. What im working on is 24/7. I can lose it and have a manic episode that is horrible. I have issues but others have it worse. The key is to reconize your short commings and take action to change. That is what i am doing. I hope in 6 months i will be a new man.

Well it's good to know that I'm not on my own ... This is the worst position I've ever been in ... I'm thinking a fresh start.

 

[dustmuffin]

Well it's good to know that I'm not on my own ... This is the worst position I've ever been in ... I'm thinking a fresh start.

That is what I am tying to do. Just get my life and mental state in order. That is what's most important. Women are way down the list. I have a goal of six months to have it together. If it takes longer it takes longer. I just need to keep trying. This is the worst I have been in too. I have been this way since my divorce then everything snowballed. I didn't work on myself. I just coasted. I can't do that any longer as issues are getting worse. My ex gf was a crutch. I will get my mind right. That is the key for me. I also suffer from depression. Good luck my friend. If you need support pm me. Most of the guys on here have been through hell and are very supportive. I talk to a few younger guys on the phone. They just need some encouragement and I am happy to give it.

 

[marmel75]

Hell yes...lost job of 22 years due to management shake up. My brother died. Unemployed for two years. Divorced after 22 year marriage. Dumped after year Ltr.

I am a mess. Working on my mental state with counciling and meds. I am trying to get fit. I am better but still a mess. I start couciling monday and i am certain that will be the key.

As far as women and money go you dont have to be wealthy to get laid. I spent 3 bucks on a first date and got laid. I can usually keep my confidence and game gowing for the length of a date. What im working on is 24/7. I can lose it and have a manic episode that is horrible. I have issues but others have it worse. The key is to reconize your short commings and take action to change. That is what i am doing. I hope in 6 months i will be a new man.

Likely also deficient in key minerals like Magnesium and zinc

 

[dustmuffin]

Likely also deficient in key minerals like Magnesium and zinc

I will pick some up.