"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Haven't really posted here in a while... really just been out spinning plates and trying not to fall in love. Seriously..I am enjoying life and really enjoying women each chance i get. The reason i joined the forum was bc I was too nice to a girl.. it's helped me immensely but now i find myself in a situation I don't want to be in..

It's really not that serious... i like this girl and we made a movie date... I know.. not the best date idea but we both wanted to see "Beirut"... I haven't been on a real date in quite a while but I remember the last time I did, I ended up here because I didn't make a move lol... so I have 2 question really..

1. Can I pull off making a move on a dinner and movie date without waiting till the last minute or very end of the night?

2. How important is it to make a move on a woman on dates and why is it so essential??

I apologize if my question sounds stupid.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BreezyB84 said:
1. Can I pull off making a move on a dinner and movie date without waiting till the last minute or very end of the night?
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If by make a move you mean grab her tits, no. If you mean kino her, yes.

BreezyB84 said:
2. How important is it to make a move on a woman on dates and why is it so essential??
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If you wait to long to make a move you are not sexual. If she wants a non sexual interaction she can hang with her (girl)friends or family.
 
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There are no rules, so get that out of your head. I can already tell that you are thinking too much about the outcome. This will lead to you analyzing every little moment before, during, and after the date. You won't be at ease, in the moment, and relaxed.

My best advice is to just enjoy yourself and don't worry about making a move. Just let that happen naturally. Flirt, laugh, tease her, and see if she gives off an IOI's and flirts back. Her signals and body language will tell you everything.
 
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Thank you brothers. I appreciate the input. Trying not to overtone it.
 
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Good news is that she flaked.. said she hurt her leg at a charity walk... this was 3 hours before the date.. on to the next.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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