“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Trying not to repeat the past

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Haven't really posted here in a while... really just been out spinning plates and trying not to fall in love. Seriously..I am enjoying life and really enjoying women each chance i get. The reason i joined the forum was bc I was too nice to a girl.. it's helped me immensely but now i find myself in a situation I don't want to be in..

It's really not that serious... i like this girl and we made a movie date... I know.. not the best date idea but we both wanted to see "Beirut"... I haven't been on a real date in quite a while but I remember the last time I did, I ended up here because I didn't make a move lol... so I have 2 question really..

1. Can I pull off making a move on a dinner and movie date without waiting till the last minute or very end of the night?

2. How important is it to make a move on a woman on dates and why is it so essential??

I apologize if my question sounds stupid.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BreezyB84 said:
1. Can I pull off making a move on a dinner and movie date without waiting till the last minute or very end of the night?
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If by make a move you mean grab her tits, no. If you mean kino her, yes.

BreezyB84 said:
2. How important is it to make a move on a woman on dates and why is it so essential??
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If you wait to long to make a move you are not sexual. If she wants a non sexual interaction she can hang with her (girl)friends or family.
 
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There are no rules, so get that out of your head. I can already tell that you are thinking too much about the outcome. This will lead to you analyzing every little moment before, during, and after the date. You won't be at ease, in the moment, and relaxed.

My best advice is to just enjoy yourself and don't worry about making a move. Just let that happen naturally. Flirt, laugh, tease her, and see if she gives off an IOI's and flirts back. Her signals and body language will tell you everything.
 
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Thank you brothers. I appreciate the input. Trying not to overtone it.
 
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Good news is that she flaked.. said she hurt her leg at a charity walk... this was 3 hours before the date.. on to the next.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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