ok i liked this girl in elementary she meant a lot to me. we used to talk all the time in class and everything untill i moved. i moved to RI i had a old year book and i started to look up her on myspace and i found her so we started talking again we were texting and calling each other so one day she was with one of her friends tori and everything went wrong her friend was trying to say that i was a player when i am really not but ok, so i havent talked to hayley in 7 years than i started saying sweet things to her and i really meant them. so her friend tori started making fake stuff up hayley believed her and she started to cry and its not like i lied to hayley because i meant everything i said to her. so now she doesnt care anymore and i really do need advise... i mean is it me or is it just girls trying to make it where they feel as though im out of her league or what or trying to get me away from hayley i just dont know what to do?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Trouble :/
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Prodigy746
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That is the longest sentence i have read on this forum.
Based on your writing skills i assume you are young so i wouldnt worry too much about one girl. You will have plenty of girls that are just as good if not better than Hayle.
Based on your writing skills i assume you are young so i wouldnt worry too much about one girl. You will have plenty of girls that are just as good if not better than Hayle.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You have no control over what her jealous friend says about you.
You have no control this girl's inability to think for herself instead of being influenced by her friend's BS.
Nothing you can do. Let it go.
You have no control this girl's inability to think for herself instead of being influenced by her friend's BS.
Nothing you can do. Let it go.
Purefilth
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Besides that, lets be honest here - If i translated this correctly you havent seen this girl in SEVEN YEARS.
What makes you say "all these nice things" to her.
She isnt the person you knew in elementary school (at least i would fvcking hope not!) you should have spent some time screening her and seeing if she was a person you could spend time with.
She's obviously not a person you can chill with because she's far too easily influenced by her friends.
You are young, but you will soon learn to look behind the pretty face and see how much bullsh1t is stacked there.
Honestly man let it go, and try focusing on something else.
On a side note, girls thinking of you as a player is a GOOD thing! Trust me, I used to get it all the time. Its the line that came out directly after "How are you still single" and "how long have you been single?"
Scroll down, click the DJ bible link and start learning young'un.
