ok i liked this girl in elementary she meant a lot to me. we used to talk all the time in class and everything untill i moved. i moved to RI i had a old year book and i started to look up her on myspace and i found her so we started talking again we were texting and calling each other so one day she was with one of her friends tori and everything went wrong her friend was trying to say that i was a player when i am really not but ok, so i havent talked to hayley in 7 years than i started saying sweet things to her and i really meant them. so her friend tori started making fake stuff up hayley believed her and she started to cry and its not like i lied to hayley because i meant everything i said to her. so now she doesnt care anymore and i really do need advise... i mean is it me or is it just girls trying to make it where they feel as though im out of her league or what or trying to get me away from hayley i just dont know what to do?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Prodigy746
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That is the longest sentence i have read on this forum.
Based on your writing skills i assume you are young so i wouldnt worry too much about one girl. You will have plenty of girls that are just as good if not better than Hayle.
Based on your writing skills i assume you are young so i wouldnt worry too much about one girl. You will have plenty of girls that are just as good if not better than Hayle.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mike32ct
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You have no control over what her jealous friend says about you.
You have no control this girl's inability to think for herself instead of being influenced by her friend's BS.
Nothing you can do. Let it go.
You have no control this girl's inability to think for herself instead of being influenced by her friend's BS.
Nothing you can do. Let it go.
Purefilth
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THISMike32ct said:
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Besides that, lets be honest here - If i translated this correctly you havent seen this girl in SEVEN YEARS.
What makes you say "all these nice things" to her.
She isnt the person you knew in elementary school (at least i would fvcking hope not!) you should have spent some time screening her and seeing if she was a person you could spend time with.
She's obviously not a person you can chill with because she's far too easily influenced by her friends.
You are young, but you will soon learn to look behind the pretty face and see how much bullsh1t is stacked there.
Honestly man let it go, and try focusing on something else.
On a side note, girls thinking of you as a player is a GOOD thing! Trust me, I used to get it all the time. Its the line that came out directly after "How are you still single" and "how long have you been single?"
Scroll down, click the DJ bible link and start learning young'un.
