"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trouble :/

Trooprm31

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ok i liked this girl in elementary she meant a lot to me. we used to talk all the time in class and everything untill i moved. i moved to RI i had a old year book and i started to look up her on myspace and i found her so we started talking again we were texting and calling each other so one day she was with one of her friends tori and everything went wrong her friend was trying to say that i was a player when i am really not but ok, so i havent talked to hayley in 7 years than i started saying sweet things to her and i really meant them. so her friend tori started making fake stuff up hayley believed her and she started to cry and its not like i lied to hayley because i meant everything i said to her. so now she doesnt care anymore and i really do need advise... i mean is it me or is it just girls trying to make it where they feel as though im out of her league or what or trying to get me away from hayley i just dont know what to do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Effington

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My advice would be to use sentences, your ramblings don't make much sense.
 

Prodigy746

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That is the longest sentence i have read on this forum.

Based on your writing skills i assume you are young so i wouldnt worry too much about one girl. You will have plenty of girls that are just as good if not better than Hayle.
 

Burroughs

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1. spin more plates

2. stop writing like a faggot

3. enjoy life
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Purefilth

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Mike32ct said:
You have no control over what her jealous friend says about you.

You have no control this girl's inability to think for herself instead of being influenced by her friend's BS.

Nothing you can do. Let it go.
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Burroughs said:
1. spin more plates

2. stop writing like a faggot

3. enjoy life
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Besides that, lets be honest here - If i translated this correctly you havent seen this girl in SEVEN YEARS.

What makes you say "all these nice things" to her.

She isnt the person you knew in elementary school (at least i would fvcking hope not!) you should have spent some time screening her and seeing if she was a person you could spend time with.

She's obviously not a person you can chill with because she's far too easily influenced by her friends.

You are young, but you will soon learn to look behind the pretty face and see how much bullsh1t is stacked there.

Honestly man let it go, and try focusing on something else.




On a side note, girls thinking of you as a player is a GOOD thing! Trust me, I used to get it all the time. Its the line that came out directly after "How are you still single" and "how long have you been single?"




Scroll down, click the DJ bible link and start learning young'un.:up:
 

Plutoman

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Considering this was bumped after 5 years, I really hope the situation has changed..
 
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