ok i liked this girl in elementary she meant a lot to me. we used to talk all the time in class and everything untill i moved. i moved to RI i had a old year book and i started to look up her on myspace and i found her so we started talking again we were texting and calling each other so one day she was with one of her friends tori and everything went wrong her friend was trying to say that i was a player when i am really not but ok, so i havent talked to hayley in 7 years than i started saying sweet things to her and i really meant them. so her friend tori started making fake stuff up hayley believed her and she started to cry and its not like i lied to hayley because i meant everything i said to her. so now she doesnt care anymore and i really do need advise... i mean is it me or is it just girls trying to make it where they feel as though im out of her league or what or trying to get me away from hayley i just dont know what to do?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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That is the longest sentence i have read on this forum.
Based on your writing skills i assume you are young so i wouldnt worry too much about one girl. You will have plenty of girls that are just as good if not better than Hayle.
Based on your writing skills i assume you are young so i wouldnt worry too much about one girl. You will have plenty of girls that are just as good if not better than Hayle.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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You have no control over what her jealous friend says about you.
You have no control this girl's inability to think for herself instead of being influenced by her friend's BS.
Nothing you can do. Let it go.
You have no control this girl's inability to think for herself instead of being influenced by her friend's BS.
Nothing you can do. Let it go.
Purefilth
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Besides that, lets be honest here - If i translated this correctly you havent seen this girl in SEVEN YEARS.
What makes you say "all these nice things" to her.
She isnt the person you knew in elementary school (at least i would fvcking hope not!) you should have spent some time screening her and seeing if she was a person you could spend time with.
She's obviously not a person you can chill with because she's far too easily influenced by her friends.
You are young, but you will soon learn to look behind the pretty face and see how much bullsh1t is stacked there.
Honestly man let it go, and try focusing on something else.
On a side note, girls thinking of you as a player is a GOOD thing! Trust me, I used to get it all the time. Its the line that came out directly after "How are you still single" and "how long have you been single?"
Scroll down, click the DJ bible link and start learning young'un.
