"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trouble with this one girl

DJoftheTheater

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Okay, I have interest in a girl I probably shouldn't.

When I first met her, I was dating her friend and she was (technically) not dating two of my best friends. So I feel like I've allowed myself into the "friendzone" anyways, I have no classes with her and have little interaction. That having been said, I see her for a few minutes everyday and won't be able to stop seeing her anytime soon. I don't know why I'm so fascinated by her now. I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me please!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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john paul

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your story needs more clairification.
particularly..."she was (technaically) not dating two of my best friends". what is that???

Now putting that small part of your story aside, your asking the broadest question you could ever ask i think. How can I get this girl to like me?

go to the DJ bible and look up building attraction (its step 6 in the bible for all you smart dummies out there).

And that I say is how you get this girl to like you.
 

Dank Juan

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DJoftheTheater said:
I don't know why I'm so fascinated by her now. I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me please!!
You subconsciously think you can't get that sh­­it. You should know better.

DJoftheTheater said:
I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me
Don Juan Bible.
 
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