"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Trouble with this one girl

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DJoftheTheater

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Okay, I have interest in a girl I probably shouldn't.

When I first met her, I was dating her friend and she was (technically) not dating two of my best friends. So I feel like I've allowed myself into the "friendzone" anyways, I have no classes with her and have little interaction. That having been said, I see her for a few minutes everyday and won't be able to stop seeing her anytime soon. I don't know why I'm so fascinated by her now. I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me please!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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john paul

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your story needs more clairification.
particularly..."she was (technaically) not dating two of my best friends". what is that???

Now putting that small part of your story aside, your asking the broadest question you could ever ask i think. How can I get this girl to like me?

go to the DJ bible and look up building attraction (its step 6 in the bible for all you smart dummies out there).

And that I say is how you get this girl to like you.
 
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DJoftheTheater said:
I don't know why I'm so fascinated by her now. I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me please!!
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You subconsciously think you can't get that sh­­it. You should know better.

DJoftheTheater said:
I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me
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Don Juan Bible.
 
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