"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Trouble with this one girl

DJoftheTheater

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Okay, I have interest in a girl I probably shouldn't.

When I first met her, I was dating her friend and she was (technically) not dating two of my best friends. So I feel like I've allowed myself into the "friendzone" anyways, I have no classes with her and have little interaction. That having been said, I see her for a few minutes everyday and won't be able to stop seeing her anytime soon. I don't know why I'm so fascinated by her now. I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me please!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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john paul

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your story needs more clairification.
particularly..."she was (technaically) not dating two of my best friends". what is that???

Now putting that small part of your story aside, your asking the broadest question you could ever ask i think. How can I get this girl to like me?

go to the DJ bible and look up building attraction (its step 6 in the bible for all you smart dummies out there).

And that I say is how you get this girl to like you.
 

Dank Juan

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DJoftheTheater said:
I don't know why I'm so fascinated by her now. I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me please!!
You subconsciously think you can't get that sh­­it. You should know better.

DJoftheTheater said:
I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me
Don Juan Bible.
 
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