"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trouble with this one girl

DJoftheTheater

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Okay, I have interest in a girl I probably shouldn't.

When I first met her, I was dating her friend and she was (technically) not dating two of my best friends. So I feel like I've allowed myself into the "friendzone" anyways, I have no classes with her and have little interaction. That having been said, I see her for a few minutes everyday and won't be able to stop seeing her anytime soon. I don't know why I'm so fascinated by her now. I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me please!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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john paul

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your story needs more clairification.
particularly..."she was (technaically) not dating two of my best friends". what is that???

Now putting that small part of your story aside, your asking the broadest question you could ever ask i think. How can I get this girl to like me?

go to the DJ bible and look up building attraction (its step 6 in the bible for all you smart dummies out there).

And that I say is how you get this girl to like you.
 

Dank Juan

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DJoftheTheater said:
I don't know why I'm so fascinated by her now. I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me please!!
You subconsciously think you can't get that sh­­it. You should know better.

DJoftheTheater said:
I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me
Don Juan Bible.
 
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