"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trouble with this one girl

DJoftheTheater

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Okay, I have interest in a girl I probably shouldn't.

When I first met her, I was dating her friend and she was (technically) not dating two of my best friends. So I feel like I've allowed myself into the "friendzone" anyways, I have no classes with her and have little interaction. That having been said, I see her for a few minutes everyday and won't be able to stop seeing her anytime soon. I don't know why I'm so fascinated by her now. I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me please!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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john paul

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your story needs more clairification.
particularly..."she was (technaically) not dating two of my best friends". what is that???

Now putting that small part of your story aside, your asking the broadest question you could ever ask i think. How can I get this girl to like me?

go to the DJ bible and look up building attraction (its step 6 in the bible for all you smart dummies out there).

And that I say is how you get this girl to like you.
 

Dank Juan

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DJoftheTheater said:
I don't know why I'm so fascinated by her now. I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me please!!
You subconsciously think you can't get that sh­­it. You should know better.

DJoftheTheater said:
I really want to ameliorate our relationship into something more...help me
Don Juan Bible.
 
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