"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Trouble With Making An Aquentince Your GF

BBX

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I don't know if this is an afcish post but part of my problem these days is I have trouble making a girl I kinda know into the point where I can ask her out. I guess I could use more C+F, which may be part of my problem but not much seems to be working these days. I mean I keep remaining not quite friends but aquentinces with a girl.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dreamx

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Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.
 

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dreamx said:
Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.

^^WOW^^


She is your friend, that what makes it harder! When asking a women you met 5 mins ago, thats what easy. I never ask friends out, no matter how hot she is, I have many hot women but they are no more than a friend. IDK why but having women as a friend is fukking awsome. To me they are like sisters :D. I ask a hot women out if i dont know her. Asking a friend out, to me is like saying I dont wanna be your friend, i just wanna fukk you, couse once you brake up, it will not be easy for you to get back to being friends.




IDK but if I were you, i would look chiks in the field that is Not FAMILIAR to you. And girl "FRIENDS" are awsome at giving you advise, like what to wear, how to act etc.
 

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dreamx said:
Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.
No it isn't. What are you talking about?

To the original poster, might I suggest step up your game a bit? maybe try to take things to the next level? It sounds like you're only putting some of your effort into getting with the girls, which is why you can only become kinda-sorta friends with them. Use a bit more C+F, and try to make sure that they know that you like them, rather than being scared to let them know.
 

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If you ask her right after you just meet her yeah you do risk being creepy.
If you ask her out when she is your friend yeah you do risk being creepy.

Just do it. If you can feel it between you too, you shouldn't even need to ask.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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