"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Trouble With Making An Aquentince Your GF

BBX

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I don't know if this is an afcish post but part of my problem these days is I have trouble making a girl I kinda know into the point where I can ask her out. I guess I could use more C+F, which may be part of my problem but not much seems to be working these days. I mean I keep remaining not quite friends but aquentinces with a girl.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dreamx

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Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.
 

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dreamx said:
Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.

^^WOW^^


She is your friend, that what makes it harder! When asking a women you met 5 mins ago, thats what easy. I never ask friends out, no matter how hot she is, I have many hot women but they are no more than a friend. IDK why but having women as a friend is fukking awsome. To me they are like sisters :D. I ask a hot women out if i dont know her. Asking a friend out, to me is like saying I dont wanna be your friend, i just wanna fukk you, couse once you brake up, it will not be easy for you to get back to being friends.




IDK but if I were you, i would look chiks in the field that is Not FAMILIAR to you. And girl "FRIENDS" are awsome at giving you advise, like what to wear, how to act etc.
 

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dreamx said:
Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.
No it isn't. What are you talking about?

To the original poster, might I suggest step up your game a bit? maybe try to take things to the next level? It sounds like you're only putting some of your effort into getting with the girls, which is why you can only become kinda-sorta friends with them. Use a bit more C+F, and try to make sure that they know that you like them, rather than being scared to let them know.
 

Bvbidd

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If you ask her right after you just meet her yeah you do risk being creepy.
If you ask her out when she is your friend yeah you do risk being creepy.

Just do it. If you can feel it between you too, you shouldn't even need to ask.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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