"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trouble With Making An Aquentince Your GF

BBX

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I don't know if this is an afcish post but part of my problem these days is I have trouble making a girl I kinda know into the point where I can ask her out. I guess I could use more C+F, which may be part of my problem but not much seems to be working these days. I mean I keep remaining not quite friends but aquentinces with a girl.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dreamx

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Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.
 

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dreamx said:
Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.

^^WOW^^


She is your friend, that what makes it harder! When asking a women you met 5 mins ago, thats what easy. I never ask friends out, no matter how hot she is, I have many hot women but they are no more than a friend. IDK why but having women as a friend is fukking awsome. To me they are like sisters :D. I ask a hot women out if i dont know her. Asking a friend out, to me is like saying I dont wanna be your friend, i just wanna fukk you, couse once you brake up, it will not be easy for you to get back to being friends.




IDK but if I were you, i would look chiks in the field that is Not FAMILIAR to you. And girl "FRIENDS" are awsome at giving you advise, like what to wear, how to act etc.
 

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dreamx said:
Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.
No it isn't. What are you talking about?

To the original poster, might I suggest step up your game a bit? maybe try to take things to the next level? It sounds like you're only putting some of your effort into getting with the girls, which is why you can only become kinda-sorta friends with them. Use a bit more C+F, and try to make sure that they know that you like them, rather than being scared to let them know.
 

Bvbidd

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If you ask her right after you just meet her yeah you do risk being creepy.
If you ask her out when she is your friend yeah you do risk being creepy.

Just do it. If you can feel it between you too, you shouldn't even need to ask.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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