"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Trouble With Making An Aquentince Your GF

BBX

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I don't know if this is an afcish post but part of my problem these days is I have trouble making a girl I kinda know into the point where I can ask her out. I guess I could use more C+F, which may be part of my problem but not much seems to be working these days. I mean I keep remaining not quite friends but aquentinces with a girl.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dreamx

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Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.
 

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dreamx said:
Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.

^^WOW^^


She is your friend, that what makes it harder! When asking a women you met 5 mins ago, thats what easy. I never ask friends out, no matter how hot she is, I have many hot women but they are no more than a friend. IDK why but having women as a friend is fukking awsome. To me they are like sisters :D. I ask a hot women out if i dont know her. Asking a friend out, to me is like saying I dont wanna be your friend, i just wanna fukk you, couse once you brake up, it will not be easy for you to get back to being friends.




IDK but if I were you, i would look chiks in the field that is Not FAMILIAR to you. And girl "FRIENDS" are awsome at giving you advise, like what to wear, how to act etc.
 

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dreamx said:
Someone delete this thread,these are the pointless threads.
No it isn't. What are you talking about?

To the original poster, might I suggest step up your game a bit? maybe try to take things to the next level? It sounds like you're only putting some of your effort into getting with the girls, which is why you can only become kinda-sorta friends with them. Use a bit more C+F, and try to make sure that they know that you like them, rather than being scared to let them know.
 

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If you ask her right after you just meet her yeah you do risk being creepy.
If you ask her out when she is your friend yeah you do risk being creepy.

Just do it. If you can feel it between you too, you shouldn't even need to ask.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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