"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Trolling texts/comments to send to unintersted girls

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The ones who have gone ghost on you or you've gone ghost on them and you just want to troll them at this point. Mix some elements of C&F, disgusting jokes etc. Share your ideas!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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not worth your time/energy -- anything you say will just indicate you're still thinking about them only reducing their interest level further

you'll just come off annoying/needy
 

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I agree that it just sounds like a waste of time. You'll seem like a douche and be that annoying guy. Best thing to do is find a new girl with a higher interest level. Ghost the girl that seems uninterested. Why troll, what are we? 15?
 

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Wisconsin144 said:
I agree that it just sounds like a waste of time. You'll seem like a douche and be that annoying guy. Best thing to do is find a new girl with a higher interest level. Ghost the girl that seems uninterested. Why troll, what are we? 15?
who girls what the girl thinks at that point? no point in a fragile ego..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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applegoo said:
who girls what the girl thinks at that point? no point in a fragile ego..
If you don't care what she thinks why on earth would you send her anything least of all your precious attention? Just shows you've got nothing better to do whilst she's probably getting boned by someone she is interested in.
 

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If you don't care what she thinks why on earth would you send her anything least of all your precious attention? Just shows you've got nothing better to do whilst she's probably getting boned by someone she is interested in.

if you're trying to get laid and want to take a second to quickly follow up some old leads, who really cares? Sometimes a girl who wasn't sexually available before might be available now. Your reply is all about protecting a fragile ego.

i know a girl who was dating a mega player and he texts her every 2-3 weeks to hook up and she ignores him. she stopped dating him cause he cheated left and right on her.

i asked her, "don't you think he's annoying or desperate?" She replies, "no, he just thinks that he's so great that every woman wants him all the time, he's a narcissist"

Again, you guys get too deep into this sometimes.
 
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You're looking in the wrong places, guys. I found out that one I was dating had another guy. She was beautiful and smart, and 35 years my junior, but so is the one who replaced her (a week after i dumped the first one). All that it took was run an ad on a dating site and I was buried in nurses, etc. who wanted to marry me, based upon one pic and a few emails.
 

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It's not that we're talking about a fragile ego. We're saying why say anything to her. She's not interested and if you keep sending her things all she's seeing is someone who is desperate for her attention and with nothing better to do in their life, pretty sad if you ask me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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applegoo said:
just send anything, say, hey sexy b1tch and see if they reply, who cares if they don't. send a mass text to a bunch of girls in your phone list who you haven't seen in a while and just say hey sexy b1tch and see who replies
lol.
 

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Wisconsin144 said:
It's not that we're talking about a fragile ego. We're saying why say anything to her. She's not interested and if you keep sending her things all she's seeing is someone who is desperate for her attention and with nothing better to do in their life, pretty sad if you ask me.
who cares what she thinks? Lol...it's just following an old lead

I guess we just look at this differently.
 

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applegoo said:
Your reply is all about protecting a fragile ego..
Maintaining self-worth and dignity I would say.
 

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Maintaining self-worth and dignity I would say.
Yes. Anyway this thread was a bad idea and against what we have learned here.

I'm closing this one.
 

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Maintaining self-worth and dignity I would say.
Again, if your dignity and self-worth is based on what some dumb chick thinks of you, that's a problem, IMO. I don't share that sentiment and if a girl ignores my text or something, it doesn't bother me or make me feel bad about myself. There's just no way we are gonna look at this the same.

I've bombarded girls with stupid texts like "y u ignoring me boo, u shy baby," wait a few hours, no reply and I'll say something like "answer my text u dumb b1tch" or "u think u cool cause u ignoring me boo." And tbh, I've gotten them to go out with me after going ghost on me after doing silly crap ike that. But usually when girls go ghost on me, it's cause I did something to piss them off like flake on them or make fun of them, and they just think i'm a douche and they know i give zero sh1ts what they think of me when I text them and they know I do this to multiple girls.

IMO, the next step is not giving a what girls think in general.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What's the point of texting uninterested girls? They'll probably just delete your text. How about texting interested girls so you can get laid. Isn't that a lot better?
 

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applegoo said:
Again, if your dignity and self-worth is based on what some dumb chick thinks of you, that's a problem, IMO. I don't share that sentiment and if a girl ignores my text or something, it doesn't bother me or make me feel bad about myself.
By texting a girl who flat out rejected you are lowering your self-worht and implying you don't respect yourself.

But I agree with you. If your communication just fizzled out or she just ignored a few of your texts in the past and no disrespect was involved, then that would be okay, but as mentioned by pardner we will be just wasting our time.
 

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Suspens said:
By texting a girl who flat out rejected you are lowering your self-worht and implying you don't respect yourself.

But I agree with you. If your communication just fizzled out or she just ignored a few of your texts in the past and no disrespect was involved, then that would be okay.

Oh, if a girl rejected you cause she doesn't find you attractive, yeah, waste of time.

But if it's a girl you pissed off or something, who gives a sh1t lol. Eventually they will forgive you or agree to see you if they are bored and don't have any intriguing options
 

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You're looking in the wrong places, guys. I found out that one I was dating had another guy. She was beautiful and smart, and 35 years my junior, but so is the one who replaced her (a week after i dumped the first one). All that it took was run an ad on a dating site and I was buried in nurses, etc. who wanted to marry me, based upon one pic and a few emails.
Were they from another country? :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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