Hell our grandparents and parents never had to deal with the dating bs that we are dealing with these days.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Treating Woman Bad, Gets Better Results?
- Thread starter soulforge
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Here’s an example of “treating women” bad that worked for me and I didn’t even plan it that way. I was dating this girl and she basically dumped me even though she never made it official. If you haven’t hung out with me in 2 weeks and cancelled dates I had lined up with you, won’t answer or return my calls, etc I consider myself dumped. So I go out with an old friend and her super badass friends. They made me take a bunch of pics with them and they sent me copies. I put them on Facebook, guess who was suddenly “willing to talk”??? Yeah, the old ***** that was too good to give me a straight answer before now has all the answers I could ever need. The girl basically had me in dating limbo because she hadn’t quite made up her mind what to do with me yet. Hoping I would pursue her to beg for her attention, she would stick me in the friend zone easily. Sitting around waiting on her while she talks and goes out with other guys makes ME miss out and move on. So I struck first and I upgraded with girls she couldn’t compete with. She ran around telling everyone I cheated on her and posted pics with girls I cheated on her with. The funny thing is I was like “oh yeah please tell them that and please show them these pics because all your guy friends will agree with my taste”lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Left her in the dust. "I wouldnt even let you kiss my azz"
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Imagine "the game" or the dating game as a basketball or football game. Your caring persona wouldnt belong in those games. The problem is where we do not accept "the game" for what it is.
Well I Just told her “look if you would have had this talk with me 2 weeks ago we’d be fine but all I got was excuses and bull**** and you misjudged me that I’d sit around waiting on you forever just because I’ve been nice to you.” She viewed me as because I was nice to her that I didn’t have any other options. Boy was she wrong.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
How do you do it without getting i trouble ?