Hell our grandparents and parents never had to deal with the dating bs that we are dealing with these days.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Treating Woman Bad, Gets Better Results?
- Thread starter soulforge
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Here’s an example of “treating women” bad that worked for me and I didn’t even plan it that way. I was dating this girl and she basically dumped me even though she never made it official. If you haven’t hung out with me in 2 weeks and cancelled dates I had lined up with you, won’t answer or return my calls, etc I consider myself dumped. So I go out with an old friend and her super badass friends. They made me take a bunch of pics with them and they sent me copies. I put them on Facebook, guess who was suddenly “willing to talk”??? Yeah, the old ***** that was too good to give me a straight answer before now has all the answers I could ever need. The girl basically had me in dating limbo because she hadn’t quite made up her mind what to do with me yet. Hoping I would pursue her to beg for her attention, she would stick me in the friend zone easily. Sitting around waiting on her while she talks and goes out with other guys makes ME miss out and move on. So I struck first and I upgraded with girls she couldn’t compete with. She ran around telling everyone I cheated on her and posted pics with girls I cheated on her with. The funny thing is I was like “oh yeah please tell them that and please show them these pics because all your guy friends will agree with my taste”lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Left her in the dust. "I wouldnt even let you kiss my azz"
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Imagine "the game" or the dating game as a basketball or football game. Your caring persona wouldnt belong in those games. The problem is where we do not accept "the game" for what it is.
Well I Just told her “look if you would have had this talk with me 2 weeks ago we’d be fine but all I got was excuses and bull**** and you misjudged me that I’d sit around waiting on you forever just because I’ve been nice to you.” She viewed me as because I was nice to her that I didn’t have any other options. Boy was she wrong.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
How do you do it without getting i trouble ?