Hell our grandparents and parents never had to deal with the dating bs that we are dealing with these days.In order to keep a woman these days... You simply just Cannot be yourself.
Being the caring, empathetic guys, doesn't get you chit.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hell our grandparents and parents never had to deal with the dating bs that we are dealing with these days.In order to keep a woman these days... You simply just Cannot be yourself.
Being the caring, empathetic guys, doesn't get you chit.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Left her in the dust. "I wouldnt even let you kiss my azz"Here’s an example of “treating women” bad that worked for me and I didn’t even plan it that way. I was dating this girl and she basically dumped me even though she never made it official. If you haven’t hung out with me in 2 weeks and cancelled dates I had lined up with you, won’t answer or return my calls, etc I consider myself dumped. So I go out with an old friend and her super badass friends. They made me take a bunch of pics with them and they sent me copies. I put them on Facebook, guess who was suddenly “willing to talk”??? Yeah, the old ***** that was too good to give me a straight answer before now has all the answers I could ever need. The girl basically had me in dating limbo because she hadn’t quite made up her mind what to do with me yet. Hoping I would pursue her to beg for her attention, she would stick me in the friend zone easily. Sitting around waiting on her while she talks and goes out with other guys makes ME miss out and move on. So I struck first and I upgraded with girls she couldn’t compete with. She ran around telling everyone I cheated on her and posted pics with girls I cheated on her with. The funny thing is I was like “oh yeah please tell them that and please show them these pics because all your guy friends will agree with my taste”lol
Imagine "the game" or the dating game as a basketball or football game. Your caring persona wouldnt belong in those games. The problem is where we do not accept "the game" for what it is.In order to keep a woman these days... You simply just Cannot be yourself.
Being the caring, empathetic guys, doesn't get you chit.
Well I Just told her “look if you would have had this talk with me 2 weeks ago we’d be fine but all I got was excuses and bull**** and you misjudged me that I’d sit around waiting on you forever just because I’ve been nice to you.” She viewed me as because I was nice to her that I didn’t have any other options. Boy was she wrong.Left her in the dust. "I wouldnt even let you kiss my azz"
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.