Harsh, but true.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Trash talking ex
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
bcude
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She's only devoted and loyal towards her agenda at any time. Being a man doesn't keep her from cheating.
Being her best option lessens the chance though.
Rawksteddy
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She was kinda all over the place. I don’t think it’s my fault in becoming less attractive. I think it’s my fault in poor selection. But it doesn’t matter now. Because it’s over. I’ve removed her from my social media. And will just move on.
Rawksteddy
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It sucks because she was really hot.
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I think that if every forum member here was as honest as your above posting, they'd also admit that they've made similar conveniences for an ex. It's not one of those things we enjoy admitting to others (or ourselves) but I think that we've all done it.
The fact that you can own it and do so publicly, is an indication of self-confidence that I'd wager is lacking among several of the old-time forum members.
I'm sure that you're going to do well with the women.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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What does it say about you for choosing to be intimate with her?
Ohso-Phresh
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True.
And...
If you are her best option, she won’t cheat.
Cheating would be acting not in her own best interest.
Ohso-Phresh
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lol,
Your physical body is the sum total of your choices.
Eat junk food -> get fat
Fvck low quality hoes -> get std’s
Enjoy women with class -> life get’s better all around
unless, of course, you’re really desperate to increase your notch count for validation, then by all means enjoy yourself
The point is, regardless of your choices, win with them. If she was worthy enough for you to get your dlck wet, she’s worthy enough to not disparage.
It’s just a reflection of the one doing the disparagement for anyone not blind to it.
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She doesn’t message me for a week. Then I delete her from Facebook and she starts accusing me of doing it because I’m seeing someone else. Insanity
Rawksteddy
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Bahaha. She must be upset that I won’t be joining her team of orbiters. Blocked.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
anything this ex or any ex does or says "I miss you"..........."we had good memories"..........."you ok"
i want you to translate into this sentence
"ARE YOU STILL SUCKING YA THUMB WATCHING SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE, WAITING FOR ME??. VALIDATE ME BOY"
i want you to translate into this sentence
"ARE YOU STILL SUCKING YA THUMB WATCHING SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE, WAITING FOR ME??. VALIDATE ME BOY"
Rawksteddy
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After I unfriended her I went to her page to block her. And she had been posting sexy pictures of herself and flirting with her orbiters in the comments. Also had changed her privacy settings to make all her passive aggressive posts public so I’d be able to see them. Seemed real narcissistic to me.
Rawksteddy
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see! It’s hard not to trash talk her lol.
All bait.!! she will give you a taste of the nectar from the plant next if you go real quiet........then the morning after she will ghost you or go quiet on you like you never existed....then she will rinse and repeat this behaviour forever................if you allow her to
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ThinkerG
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It’s more like “here we go again boys” but it’s ok, this is a must. Everything youve said so far demonstrates low value, denial and just lost. Most people start here, you’re just lost but with research and effort you can achieve a rebirth. You must unplug first. I’d start by reading the rational male.