"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Trap of Yersterday/Tommorow

Blue Dude

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I was reading the nre DJ Bible Redone, and red about "Traps". More specificly trap of yesterday and trap of tommorow.
The reason I am mentioning this here is becouse I have a habbit of falling for these traps all the fcking time. But yesterday I didn't. EVERY single time when I started thinking about, What happend and how it influenced me" I thought to my self "dont fall for the trap of yesterday. And every time I was starting to think about this girl I was too meet later that same evning and what we are gonna do, I reminded my self to "not fall for trap of tommorow". LIVE NOW! Thats what I was telling my self. Look around. Yersterday is not NOW. Tommorow is not Now. NOW IS NOW! Tommorow will come and Yesterday, fck yesterday! So I went doing my own thing, concetrating on just what is happening around me and shait like that and in the end I had GREAT NIGHT!
The reason I belive is becouse I didn't overanalysed what is gonna happen when I meet this girl or for the rest of the night. I didn't have any expectations. And so, I couldn't feel sad or anything if night didn't went too good. Cuz everything is above expectations since I didn't have any expectations. So night ended and I went home and sleept like a baby. :up:

So my final words, dont fall for trap of yasterday or tommorow!:nono:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Blue Dude said:
I was reading the nre DJ Bible Redone, and red about "Traps". More specificly trap of yesterday and trap of tommorow.
The reason I am mentioning this here is becouse I have a habbit of falling for these traps all the fcking time. But yesterday I didn't. EVERY single time when I started thinking about, What happend and how it influenced me" I thought to my self "dont fall for the trap of yesterday. And every time I was starting to think about this girl I was too meet later that same evning and what we are gonna do, I reminded my self to "not fall for trap of tommorow". LIVE NOW! Thats what I was telling my self. Look around. Yersterday is not NOW. Tommorow is not Now. NOW IS NOW! Tommorow will come and Yesterday, fck yesterday! So I went doing my own thing, concetrating on just what is happening around me and shait like that and in the end I had GREAT NIGHT!
The reason I belive is becouse I didn't overanalysed what is gonna happen when I meet this girl or for the rest of the night. I didn't have any expectations. And so, I couldn't feel sad or anything if night didn't went too good. Cuz everything is above expectations since I didn't have any expectations. So night ended and I went home and sleept like a baby. :up:

So my final words, dont fall for trap of yasterday or tommorow!:nono:
I like the message, but you didnt write it too well.

I suggest rereading it and rewriting. Its a bit jumbled.


But yeah. I completely agree with you. Keep fighting it and live in the now. Its much better.
 

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Acting in the NOW, means there is No Opportunity Wasted. I completely agree with you, I live with tomorrow in mind, but my mind only cares about NOW.
 

Sean O

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Why the hell do people quote entire posts? I'm getting sick of seeing it happen. The only reason to quote someone is to quote a specific part of their post in order to reference it directly. It's so pointless and such a waste of space to quote the entire damn thing.
 
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Well thanks for making it clear. It's actually a force of habit.

Next time: Could you please state your disatisfaction clearly? Without complaining like a woman?

Thanks hon.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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